[...]kinda worried now as one of the reasons ive chosen to go with linux is that it can run on a low spec pc.
Ever tried the CTRL & ALT & F1 (or F2 to F6) key combinations, Steve? It'll take you to a virtual console where you can log in and do everything you know how to on the command line (CTRL & ALT & F7 to get back to where you started). If you ever wanted to install Linux purely as a server you can do it without the resource overhead a Graphical User Interface would incur.
For most of us using Linux on the desktop we like a nice point-and-click graphical interface; on top of the basic Linux installation that means (in the case of Ubuntu) adding the X Window System (to provide the basic windowing capability), the Metacity window manager (to provide window 'decorations' such as the minimize, resize & close window buttons, and the GNOME desktop environment (to provide panels, pagers, file manager etc).
The more layers you add the greater the resources used. I don't think that Ubuntu 9.10 will be much / any slower on your system than 9.04 but if it turns out that it is there are alternative desktop environments which are less resource hungry than GNOME (
LXDE and
Xfce for examples).