In a programme called "The Real A&E". Ambulances and paramedics are called to a traffic accident where a motorcyclist is trapped under the front of a lorry. With no sense of irony the paramedic shouts under the truck to the motorcyclist "does it hurt anywhere" He didn't say but I like to think I would shout back "no the truck's fine".
Experience; is something you gain, just after you needed it most.
When faced with two choices, simply toss a coin. It works not because it settles the question for you. But because in that brief moment while the coin is in the air. You suddenly know what you are hoping for.