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For us oldies - good, bad, indifferent

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For us oldies - good, bad, indifferent

http://www.bournemouthecho.co.uk/news/16040086.Care_home_criticised_for_organising__inappropriate__p...

A CARE home in Christchurch has defended its decision to provide pole dancing entertainment for its residents.

Fairmile Grange, which is situated in the grounds of Christchurch Hospital, has come under fire for organising the “inappropriate” activity for residents, some of whom have dementia.

But the specialist nursing home, which only opened last year, said both relatives and residents had been requesting “more modern-style activities” and, when given the choice, “welcomed” the pole dancers’ performance.

County Councillor Peter Hall, who represents the ward where Fairmile Grange is based, said he was “absolutely surprised” that this entertainment had taken place.

There is video - not very good -  in the link

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Re: For us oldies - good, bad, indifferent

The majority of elderly people in care homes are women and I doubt many would be interested in watching pole dancing.

On the otherhand everybody has the right to do or see any legal activity irrespective of age or gender, perhaps a more logical approach would be for a organised trip to see this for those who were interested.

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Could the council have thought it could raise interests too much? It's not the salacious type of dance, and in any case only memories could be stimulated in most cases.Grin

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Re: For us oldies - good, bad, indifferent

I guess times are changing.

Maybe this was more about cheap entertainment for the staff. Or a nurse has an evening job.

Not what I would call an "activity".

 

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@gleneagles wrote:

The majority of elderly people in care homes are women ...

 

 


Male pole dancers?  Older ladies go rather wild at male stripping events I've heard.

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Re: For us oldies - good, bad, indifferent

Pole dancers 😂😂😂😂😂. Anyone got the address for this carehome.👙I could do with a good day out .
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@Shep41 

Address: Royal Cl, Christchurch BH23 2UG
 
If you must! It's near town centre, well served by public transport, and a rail station.Grin
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Oooo a day out by train ......even better😂🤣
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Re: For us oldies - good, bad, indifferent

But, if the old folk are pole-dancing, wouldn't their breasts get tangled up with the poles? Funny

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@Luzern wrote:
Address: Royal Cl, Christchurch BH23 2UG
 
If you must! It's near town centre, well served by public transport, and a rail station.Grin

Hmmm...It seems @Luzern has a secret pastime, address, phone number, exact location and transport details. Roll eyes

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@Shep41 wrote:
Oooo a day out by train ......even better😂🤣

 I recall back in the late 70's or early 80's BR offering the pensioners a day away trip For £1, I'd never realised just how devious they could be...

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Wow! I hope nursing homes are that generous when i end up in one... lol

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Disappointing, no audience participation....

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@Pete11 wrote:

@Luzern wrote:
Address: Royal Cl, Christchurch BH23 2UG
 
If you must! It's near town centre, well served by public transport, and a rail station.Grin

Hmmm...It seems @Luzern has a secret pastime, address, phone number, exact location and transport details. Roll eyes


No secret pastime, just eyed Google, but not google-eyed.

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@Luzern

Now, do I believe that?..or..is it your idea of a good night out?  Grin

They'll be putting liquid viagra in the cocoa urn next just to see what happens.  Cheesy

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