Seem to have run into a new problem where both PS4s are either in a "strict" NAT setting or "Unknown" the upshot is that I can only connect with one friend at a time over PS4+. Sometimes three is possible but the third is booted shortly after.
This is a new problem. Are there new restrictions due to COVID internet usage or something?
I have both PS4s on static IPs and have the higher unPuP sec settings off.
I see there is a way to do port forwarding but all the games on the list are several years old and I can't set port forwarding for both PS4s.