Website Upload takes ages

[#1]

HiAll im using Cute FTP to upload my website. There is about 60meg and it seams to take hours to upload. and this seams to take place eveytime i change somthing even though its only a small thing. Is there a program like cute ftp that will only update to the website the files that I have updated by my changes to the website Say via a date thing or somthing along these lines so it dont take hours. And only sends whats been changed. I have lots of photos hence why its 60meg. Regards Andy

[#2]

Your upload speed will determine how long it takes to upload.
Are you on ADSL Max or one of the fixed speed products? The fixed speed products have a fixed upload speed of 288Kbs whereas on Max this can be 432Kbs (832Kbs on Max premium).
Can't help with an free FTP client that only uploads changed/new files. I use Dreamweaver which has a way to identify changed files but it is never 100% accurate. One of the problems you are likely to have is time differences between local PC and server which tends to make copying changed files very inconsistent.

[#3]

Hi I am on ADSL Max even though i still only get just over 1mb speed about the same as when i was on normal. I would still have thught it should take a lot less time than it does take. I have noticed though there seams to be a lot of times outs and i get the reply from the server in the logs that say somting and waiting 60 seconds to retry. And the Cute FTP is a full version so not bothered if i have to buy  decent one or not. I am using Website X5 to do the website but its upload part is a load of crp and never uploads any of the file correct and always misses photo files. So a good wedsite that includes a ftp might be a safe bet Did you say dreamwaver is good as i am sure somwhere in the house i have a boxed one of these it might be a few years old though LOL. I will have to have a look